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Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Lit List: Top Ten Literature for Black History Month

Lit List: Top Ten Literature For Black History Month
By Julie Sara Porter, Bookworm Reviews


To honor Black History Month, I have compiled a list of the best literature to recommend for readers to celebrate the legacy of African-American authors and their protagonists many of whom questioned society's restrictions towards them based on class, gender, sexuality, and of course race. Sometimes they were successful, sometimes not so much. But they definitely got Reader's attention and got them talking.

Now for this list I have included one YA novel, one play, and 8 novels. There were some requirements. The most important was that they all had to be written by black authors. They also had to feature a black protagonist.  I have nothing against To Kill a Mockingbird or The Adventures of/ Huckleberry Finn. Both are wonderful books that deal with racial issues. However, they are both written by white authors and are told primarily through white characters. There is a huge difference between being an observer of such issues and being a participant and these books, I feel explore those internal struggles better than Mockingbird or Huckleberry do.

You will also noticed two books are left out, even though they are written by African-American women and are personal favorites of mine: The Color Purple  by Alice Walker and Beloved by Toni Morrison. Those are two of my all-time favorite novels and I highly recommend them, but I reviewed them quite a bit last year and wanted to read other works by Morrison and Walker. (Both have books that are on this list). However, I would be remiss if I did not recommend them to any potential Readers. If you never have, read them. They are brilliant books with strong female protagonists and deal with racial and gender themes in brilliant ways that explore the solidarity of women and community.

If you know of any others that I miss, please let me know here or on Facebook and as always spoilers may follow.


10. Roll of Thunder Hear My Cry by Mildred Taylor

While Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry is a YA novel, it has as much to say about the struggles of African-Americans as books with protagonists twice the age of its 9 year old lead character, Cassie Logan.

The segregated Depression era Southern setting is stark, uncomfortable, and unfortunately very real. There are many moments throughout the book that take an unflinching look at the racism that the Logan family encounters, particularly in passages such as when a young white girl and her father throw Cassie on the road and make her call the girl "miss" after Cassie accidentally bumps into her.
Luckily, Cassie is written as a very strong-willed character and gets even with the girl in a very epic manner. There are also moments that show how demeaning the lives of many blacks in the South were such as their school being further from their home than the school for white children and that they have to use older dated textbooks much to their teacher/mother's dismay.

The violent passages such as showing a victim of being tarred and feathered and another who had been burned are disturbing and unforgettable. They show the true impact of racism and how it affects everyone that surrounds them. The ending is purposely left ambiguous as the racist climate will continue to effect the Logan family for generations to come.


9. Go Tell It On the Mountain by James Baldwin
When people attend church services, they never know what goes on in the minds of their fellow church goers, the people who sit in the pews across from them, the choir members, even the pastor. James Baldwin takes an inside look into the minds of an African-American church going family and reveals that all is not sainted nor holy inside. This is a world that Baldwin knew a great deal about since he was the stepson of a Hell Fire and Brimstone pastor and the book is a semi-autobiographical account of his internal struggles between his religion and his homosexuality. The book is filled with religious imagery of Salvation and stories like that of Moses leading his people out of the wilderness (comparing African-Americans to stand against their white oppressors).

John Grimes is the stepson of Rev. Gabriel Grimes, pastor of the storefront Pentecostal Temple of the Fire Baptized. He listens to his stepfather's sermon with a mixture of hatred for his stepfather's abusive nature and desire to win his affections.  As the short novel continues, we get not only into John's thoughts but those of his stepfather, mother, and aunt.

Each person in his family is revealed to have a secret that they do not reveal to anyone but themselves which the Narration implies are their sins that they have kept concealed. John's mother, Elizabeth still mourns the loss of his birth father, Richard who killed himself before John was born and married Gabriel more for protection and security than any love. Gabriel, himself, is filled with judgment over his family, parishioners, and the world around him. (He beats his younger son with a belt after the boy had been stabbed.) However he recalls his late first wife, Deborah and mistress, Esther with whom he fathered a child. Gabriel's sister, Florence, also knows about Esther and the child and has been keeping a letter as proof to reveal to Gabriel when the "time is right." In telling the stories of the three Grimes adults and their pasts, Baldwin dares the Readers to see them as deeply flawed human beings who alternate between wanting God's love and fearing God's wrath because of their secrets.

John himself goes through and awakening that is equally spiritual and sexual. He believes that he is filled with the Holy Spirit and sees images of God in some beautiful evocative description. However he is filled with an earthly desire for a fellow male parishioner, Elisha. The inner spiritual warfare between John's quest for religions salvation and his homosexual desire is deeply felt as he feels he cannot come to terms with both, The ending is left purposely ambiguous over which side John chooses. (Though since he is based on Baldwin who wrote other books about his sexuality and criticisms of religion, indicates this is the way John will choose as well.)



8. A Raisin in the Sun by Lorraine Hansberry

The title of Lorraine Hansberry's moving Tony nominated  play comes from a line in Langston Hughes' poem "Harlem (Dream Deferred)" asking "What happens to a dream deferred/Does it dry up like a raisin in the sun?" Her play shows the effects of a dream deferred on an African-American family as they receive their husband and father's life insurance policy.

Each one has different ideas on what to do with it. For Walter Lee Younger, this means he can open up a liquor store with his street-smart friends. For his younger sister, Beneatha, she can continue her education in medical school. Their mother, Lena, wants to buy a house in a white neighborhood.

The conflicts within the family are realistic and tense as the Youngers find their individual paths with the money. Walter Lee's friends abscond with the money leaving him a broken man. Beneatha is torn between two completely different men, one an educated snob and the other who encourages her to embrace her African heritage.
In one memorable scene, a white member of the housing committee visits the Youngers to offer them money not to move to the neighborhood "for their own good and safety" only to receive the brush off by Lena. Walter Lee vows to be a better man by saying that the Youngers are proud of who they are and will be good neighbors. This final scene shows that the Youngers don't know whether they will face racism and tension in their new neighborhood but they will face it together.


7. The Women of Brewster Place by Gloria Naylor

Naylor's novel told in seven short stories tells of the relationships between seven African-American women and how they try to aid each other.

The women are originally written and stand out in their stories. There's Mattie Michael, who acts as den mother to the other women but has her own history of worrying about a son who is on the run from the law. Etta Mae Johnson is an older but feisty woman who doesn't mind dating men half her age. Kiswana Browne, a young woman from a wealthy family who embraces the "Back to Africa" movement and the lower class Brewster Place much to her mother's dismay. Luciella Louise Turner wants to keep her no-good boyfriend in her life to the point of injuring herself. Cora Lee is a single mother of a mob of unruly children who could learn some discipline (and so could she). Lorraine and Therese are a lesbian couple who move to Brewster Place to seek acceptance but instead get the worst kind of bigotry possible. In their stories, Naylor characterizes each woman with her strengths, frailties, and individuality making them fascinating characters.

Besides their individuality, Naylor also explores their connections to each other and how each woman reaches out to the others for friendship, understanding, and maybe a chance to change her life for the better. When Mattie is on the run from her abusive father, she is taken in by Luciella's grandmother. Mattie then returns the favor by helping Luciella through her crises with her boyfriend. Etta Mae stands up for Lorraine and Therese when a nosey neighbor judges them in a meeting. Kiswana invites Cora Lee's children to a street performance of A Midsummer Night's Dream which inspires one of the kids to become a writer.

The connections bring the women together as a whole. This is particularly meaningful in the final chapters when it is revealed that the characters moved on and Brewster Place got swallowed up and gerrymandered into other names. Even though Brewster Place is gone, Naylor's characters still have their memories of community.


6. Native Son by Richard Wright

Bigger Thomas is one of many protagonists like Dostoevsky's Raskolnikov: a protagonist who commits murder but instead of judging or censoring him, the writing goes into the societal implications. What causes a man like Raskolnikov or Bigger Thomas to commit a crime? In the case of Bigger, his author Richard Wright asks the question of how much race plays a part in Bigger's crime, his cover up of the crime, his arrest, and trial.

Until he accidentally murders wealthy white Mary Dalton, Bigger could never articulate what he feels. He feels isolated because of the prejudice from white society and trapped by the needs of his impoverished family. He works as a chauffeur for the Dalton family but feels condescended and mocked by their acts of kindness particularly from Mary who is an active member of the Communist party with her boyfriend, Jan. Since he had never felt anything but fear, hatred, and derision from white people, he feels the same for them. He acts subservient and says "yesum", taking them wherever they want, while gritting his teeth inside. One night after a drunken encounter with Mary and Jan, Bigger brings Mary upstairs and accidentally suffocates her.

The passages following the murder are Poe-esque as Bigger recruits his girlfriend, Bessie, to write a ransom note signed by the local Communist party in an attempt to frame Jan for the murder. It is spine-tingling and somewhat gruesomely entertaining as Bigger plays on the white characters' prejudices by feigning ignorance so they would believe that he was not clever enough to commit the murder. He feels confident enough to stay ahead of the police until he is unable to collect the ransom money to leave town and he kills Bessie in another moment of panic eventually leading to his pursuit and capture. (In pages that are all-too-real in these days of media exploitation of crimes particularly ones that fall in "Missing White Woman Syndrome" categories, Bigger is charged for Mary's death  but very little mention is made towards Bessie's.)

The final third of Native Son deals with Bigger's trial and the words of his defense attorney, Boris Max who lays out the themes for the jury and the Reader to learn. While Max's speech is long, it is gripping as it challenges that Bigger's fear and hatred towards white people, and accidental murder of Mary was a learned trait: brought on by white society's fear and hatred of him. The writing suggests that Bigger Thomas was not born, he was made. That we all created Bigger Thomas and all of the Bigger Thomases before and since.





5. Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison

Invisible Man is a deeply analytical and thought-provoking novel about an unnamed African-American man who must face his metaphoric invisibility as a victim of racism, social conflict, and the judgments and prejudices of others.

From the unforgettable first chapter where the Narrator is made to participate in a grueling Battle Royale for the amusement of white patrons, he discovers that he is used and betrayed by the people around him. It's heartbreaking as he goes throughout his life manipulated and made a fool of by people around him. Even when he obtains some success such as at an all-black college, eventually his happiness collapses such as when he is expelled after taking one of the founders on a detour of the seedier side of town (thought it was at the request of the founder and not his idea).

The Narrator spends a great deal of time with a group known as the Brotherhood, an organization that seems a composite of socialist/anarchists. He gains some success as a spokesperson on their behalf in Harlem. But disillusionment sets in when another African-American member of the Brotherhood is shot while trying to resist arrest and the Narrator makes a stirring speech on the rights of African-Americans (much to the Brotherhood's objection). Disillusionment turns to hatred when riots start in Harlem and the Narrator realizes that was the Brotherhood's plan all along.

The strongest statement in the book is made when the Invisible Man decides to no longer be invisible, to speak and fight for himself. He ends the book provocatively by daring the Reader to confront their own invisibility by saying "Who knows but that on the lower frequencies, I speak for you."


4. Kindred by Octavia Butler

You can never know what the past is like unless you've actually been there. Edana "Dana" Franklin learns that lesson as she travels back and forth between her 1976 home with her Caucasian husband, Kevin and the antebellum South where she is mistaken and treated like a slave.

Dana suffers frequent dizzy spells and when she recovers from them, she finds herself in the presence of Rufus Weylin, the son of a plantation owner and is later revealed to be Dana's ancestor. Each time that Dana arrives, it is to help Rufus out of some difficulty. Once it is to save him from drowning, another time, she finds him drunk in an alley and so on. The multiple times of saving Rufus' life does not endear her in the eyes of his parents who have her whipped, and especially Rufus' father who gives Dana very uncomfortable stares. She also encounters Rufus' future mistress, a free black woman, Alice whom Dana is determined to protect until she gives birth to Alice and Rufus' daughter, Hagar.

Dana is a very well developed character as she goes from the past to the present and her interactions with others. Her relationship with Rufus for example is one of concern mixed with hatred. He alternates between needing Dana as a mother figure and seeing her as property. She is also held under suspicion by the black characters particularly Alice, who at first refused to be Rufus' concubine and instead wants to run away with her husband. Alice's husband, Isaac is beaten and sold sending Alice reluctantly into Rufus' protection. Then there's Kevin, Dana's modern-day husband who at first is very condescending not believing her time travel stories until he encounters them himself.

One of the themes that plays into the narrative is the idea of home. The further Dana goes in time, the longer she stays there. In the first chapter, she is only in the past for a few hours and returns after a few seconds. Later she spends months in the past and is gone for hours. The longest time between the past and present belongs not to Dana, but to her husband Kevin. Even though he's gone for eight days (and can only return when Dana goes back to the past to retrieve him), for Kevin he has been in the past for five years: long enough for him to travel to the North and become an abolitionist/teacher. Each time Kevin and Dana return to the present, they have momentary culture shock from the modern conveniences and question their lives in the present and their marriage. (Dana worries that with Kevin in the past, his thoughts may conform to those of the white men he encounters. When he returns at first she's skeptical with whether he became an abolitionist, which he tells her of course he did.) When they travel between time, they aren't sure where their home actually is and still suffer from the memories of the past. This is revealed in the end when Dana is injured in the past and the injury carries over to her return. A part of her will always be in the past scarred by her experience as a slave.


3. Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston

Hurston's brilliant short novel is about a woman who discovers herself and her own strength from her marriages to three different men.

Janie Crawford begins life unsure of herself even her own skin (She recalls having a picture taken with white children and confused that she couldn't see herself not knowing that she was different from the other children inspiring their mockery at her naivete). As Janie grows that insecurity manifests in her relationships with men as her grandmother arranges her first marriage to an older man, Logan Killick.

Janie's marriage to Logan doesn't last long as she's tired of being a drudge and playing second fiddle to Logan's late first wife. She divorces him and marries Jody Starks, a charming drifter who becomes mayor of a small town. At first her life as First Lady of Jody's town of Green Cove Springs is pleasant, but Jody verbally abuses her and forces the townspeople to do hard physical labor. Janie endures her unhappy marriage for 20 years until as Jody is dying she curses him with all the hurt he gave her over the years.

At age 40, Janie marries her third husband Vergible Woods AKA Tea Cake, a much younger man. Recognizing her own sexual desires, Janie elopes with Tea Cake to the Everglades. It is in her marriage to Tea Cake that Janie is able to find the strength to stand up as an independent woman and no longer take the abuse that the men in her life have given her.


2. Sula by Toni Morrison

Sula tells the story of two women who on the surface appear to be polar opposites, but they are revealed to be very similar.
Nel and Sula grow up in the town of Bottom, Ohio and have very different backgrounds. Nel's family is very rigid conservative home that is only livened by her occasional visits to her maternal grandmother, Rochelle, a prostitute. Sula lives in a boarding house with her mother and grandmother neither of which were married when they had their children and a regular stream of male boarders including three men they call "the deweys."

As they age, their paths continue to diverge as Nel marries young and has children and Sula leaves town only to return with a bad reputation of having many men. Nel welcomes her friend-that is until Sula runs off with her husband causing Nel to reevaluate her friendship with Sula.

At first Sula seems like the bad girl and Nel seems like the good girl, but Morrison's excellent writing makes their lines not so defined. This is exemplified in a passage in which Sula accidentally kills a neighbor boy. While Nel blames Sula solely for the tragedy, Sula's elderly grandmother reminds Nel that she watched it happen and did nothing to stop it nor did she tell anyone about it, so Nel was just as much to blame as Sula. Nel also realizes that she was as much to blame in the decline of her marriage as Sula. Morrison shows that there is bad and good within everyone and sometimes those who pass judgment on those who do wrong are just as capable of it themselves.


1. The Temple of My Familiar by Alice Walker

We carry our personal history and the history of our people with us is the main theme of Alice Walker's multi-narrative epic novel The Temple of My Familiar. This novel tells the story of a group of people who are interwoven by their current links to each other and their past histories which tell of many generations of oppression, conflict, struggles, and migration.

The Temple of My Familiar has a large cast many of whom are connected in unusual ways. There is Carlotta, a beautiful Latin American woman whose flamboyant rocker husband, Arveyda ran off with her mother, Zede. Carlotta is also having an affair with Suwelo, a college professor who is in a troubled marriage with his wife, Fanny whose grandmother is none other than Celie, the protagonist of Walker's The Color Purple (I couldn't get too far away from this book.) Suwelo becomes close friends with an older couple, Hal and Miss Lissie who give him information not only about his past but the history of his people.

Each of the characters relates their stories in various chapters. There is no fluid plot so much as it is a series of interconnected stories about each person's past and their heritage. Zede's story for example tells of her history of fleeing a tempestuous political climate to America and then her return to rediscover her roots as well as her artistry in "sewing magic" which she inherited. While she tells her story, Arveyda also recounts his troubled relationship with his parents and his own questions towards his lineage particularly his fascination with his Native American roots. Fanny and her mother, Olivia tell of their relationship with Celie and Olivia's "other mother", Shug Avery that had been built on the former's abuse from her husband. (A horrible incident between Celie and a dog suggests that the abuse may not have been as far from Celie's mind as she thought).

By far the most interesting storyteller is the most fascinating character in the bunch: Miss Lissie. Lissie possesses an almost goddess-like presence as she recalls all of her former lives with a strong recall that goes beyond time and place. She captivates Suwelo, and The Reader with her memories of the distant past of her lives-mostly as black women, but sometimes as white men, and once as a lioness with aplomb. She recalls her past life in pre-historic Africa during the creation of fire all the way to slavery times mirroring the experiences of the African people and their eventual connections to America. They are particularly strong in their spiritual feelings of the early Goddess worship and the concept of a Mother Land.
Lissie compares the early idyllic life of a matriarchal society that worshiped a Goddess and its transformation to a war-like patriarchal society to a monster. This comparison is made stronger when she compares slavery to a Gorgon (Medusa) and the rebellion of the slaves against their masters as the fury of a dark vengeance seeking Goddess. This comparison implies the Goddess who had been turned over has finally sought her revenge against those who overpowered her and that she will always protect her children no matter where they are.
Lissie's memories inspire Suwelo to look at his life more closely and to reconcile with Fanny causing further reconciliations between Carlotta, Arveyda, and Zede. As Walker's characters learn from their pasts, they form a circle that connects them to a shared history not only theirs but a shared history of all people.

Honorable Mention:

Novels: The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead, Behold the Dreamers by Imbolo Mbue, Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe, Dear America: I Thought My Soul Would Rise and Fly: The Diary of Patsy, A Freed Girl by Joyce Hanson, Bud, Not Buddy and The Watsons Go To Birmingham by Christopher Paul Curtis, The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison, A Visitation of Spirits by Randall Kenan, The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas, White Teeth and Swing Time by Zadie Smith

Non-Fiction: Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass by Frederick Douglass, Up From Slavery by Booker T. Washington, Incidents in the Life of A Slave Girl by Harriet Jacobs, And Arn't I A Woman by Sojourner Truth, The Souls of Black Folk by W.E.B. Du Bois, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou, The Autobiography of Malcolm X by Malcolm X and Alex Haley, Roots: The Saga of an American Family by Alex Haley, Letter From Birmingham Jail, I Have a Dream, and Other Writings by Martin Luther King Jr., On Her Own Ground: The Life and Times of Madame C.J. Walker by A'leila Bundles, Hidden Figures: The Untold Story of The Black Women Who Helped Win the Space Race by Margot Lee Shetterley, Through My Eyes by Ruby Bridges, We Were 8 Years in Poweer by Na-Hishi Coates, Dreams of My Father and The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot

Plays: Fences and The Piano Lesson by August Wilson, for colored girls who considered suicide when the rainbow is enuf by Notzake Shange, Twilight: Los Angeles 1992 by Anna Deavere Smith, The Colored Museum by George C. Wolfe

Poems and Short Story Authors: Phyllis Wheatley, Paul Laurence Dunbar, Langston Hughes, Gwendolyn Brooks, Lucille Clifton, Maya Angelou, bell hooks, Rita Dove, Dudley Randall, Elizabeth Alexander, June Jordan, Quincy Troupe, Amiri Baraka, Nikki Giovanni, Audre Lorde





Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Lit List: Top Ten Self-Help Books To Help Make A New Start In The New Year




Lit Top Ten Self-Help Books That Help Make A New Start In The New Year by Julie Sara Porter, Bookworm Reviews

January is the perfect time to make goals and resolutions towards the New Year. Maybe to get that dream job, spend more time with the family, stop smoking, live a healthier lifestyle or be more spiritually involved. Maybe we don't always follow through those goals or the results aren't what we expect. But each new year brings a promise to start again and become a different person.

I have made a list of 10 of the best Self-Help books to improve our lives. Some offer practical advice and applications on how to get along in the world. Others are more spiritual and esoteric offering inner possibilities in how to feel attuned with one's inner self. Some may work and some may not. The true test of any Self-Help book is within the Reader and whether it works for them. It all depends on you.





10.The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle

Sometimes we get overwhelmed by the guilt from the past and the anxieties of the future. Eckhart Tolle's book suggests that it's too late to change the past and too early to plan for the future, so what we can change is our consciousness, to live in what Tolle calls "The Now."

In his introduction, Tolle writes that this book's Genesis began when a depressed Tolle contemplated suicide. He thought that he couldn't live with himself, then pondered that sentence. There must be two beings Tolle and the "I" Tolle could not live with. The "I", Tolle realized was the Ego, the part to Tolle's soul that contained all of his doubt, skepticism, thought, selfishness that kept him grounded in despair.

Tolle's writing tells Readers that to truly live in the present time, "The Now" without past guilt and future worries, they must slowly remove the doubt and superficial worries and emotions from the mind. Once they ascend to higher consciousness then the spirit can achieve Enlightenment.

Some of Tolle's writing is very esoteric and hard to follow. He helps by formatting the book into a Q and A style. Tolle gathers questions from Readers and students and answers them such as "Nobody's life is entirely free of pain and sorrow. Isn't it a question of learning to live with them rather than trying to avoid them?" Tolle answers "The greater part of human pain is unnecessary. It is self-created as long as the unobserved mind ruins your life." Human pain develops because of the intensity of negativity caused by the Ego's control over the present, making the person think that the pain is insurmountable. The Questions and Answer-format makes Tolle's work a How-to book to achieving Enlightenment.




9. The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F$#k: A Counterintuitive Approach To Living A Good Life by Mark Manson

By it's title alone, The Reader can certainly infer that Mark Manson's book is different from the rest of the books on this list, indeed most Self-Help books and they would be right. It is a parody of most Self-Help books but it also gives equally good advice about how we can learn as much through failure as we can with success.

Manson uses humor to maintain his various points such as warning of the dangers of childhood lessons of being told 'you're Special" leading to a sense of entitlement. He cites a friend, Jimmy, who would talk a good game about motivation and business ventures, always positive, but at heart he was a thief, a lecher, a con artist and a deadbeat. Manson sums up the lesson : "Don't be a Jimmy."

While the suggestions like "Don't Try", "The Values of Suffering" and"Failure is the Way Forward", one would think Manson's book is very cynical, but in a way it is just as uplifting as the other books on this list. It acknowledges what most books don't. Sometimes we will fail. Sometimes even when we get what think we want there will be difficulties. (Getting married will lead to a lack of privacy, the dream job could come with weird hours or a toxic work environment.) 

The key isn't to ignore the failures and setbacks, but to accept them and learn from them. Sometimes Manson says, it is the failures and our responses to them that make us better people.




8. The Four Agreements: A Toltec Wisdom Book by Don Miguel Ruiz-

The Toltecs were a group of artists and thinkers who lived thousands of years ago and studied wisdom outside present Mexico City  Even though they went into hiding because of the conquistadors, the generations passed that wisdom by Masters called naguals.
Ruiz, a Nagual from the Eagle Knight lineage shares that wisdom in this brief but simple book about the Agreements one must make with the Universe to be free of suffering and filled with true happiness.

The Four Agreements sound simple enough but Ruiz proves that sometimes the simplest answers are the hardest for Readers to see and to live by. The Four Agreements are: To Be Impeccable With Your Word (Speak with integrity and avoid hateful words and gossip), Don't Take Anything Personally (What others do is a projection of their own reality, so don't let their views bring your reality down), Don't Make Assumptions (Express yourself as clearly as you can. Find the courage to ask questions), and Always Do Your Best (Whatever the circumstances and your health, do the best you can.).

 Ruiz shows how people can relate to others and what long-term effects can form from  following or not following these Agreements For example, a mother angrily told her daughter that she couldn't sing. Using the mother's choice to not be impeccable with her word and the daughter taking what her mother said personally led to years of discomfort and the girl's fear of singing based on a few short angry words. A good example of following the Agreements is of a Guru Master telling his student that if he does his best by meditating four hours a day, he will achieve Englightenment in ten years. But any longer, say 8 hours and the man will forgo joy, life, and happiness-things that make life worth living and grow tired of only following a spirit-centered life.

The Four Agreements use such principles as honesty, kindness, strength, and courage to produce wisdom allowing Readers to communicate in a way that spreads true love and happiness in others and themselves.






7. The Book of Secrets: Unlocking the Hidden Dimensions of Your Life by  Deepak Chopra

We couldn't get through this list without mentioning at least one book by Deepak Chopra. The physician-turned-alternative medicine- advocate's books have been an inspiration to many people. The Book of Secrets offers various secrets that use both scientific and spiritual concepts to help Readers receive more fulfilling meaningful life.

In various chapters, Chopra uses his medical and scientific background to illustrate the more esoteric spiritual ideals. In the chapter "The World is In You", Chopra explains how the cells in the human body adapt, change, and work together to Illustrated how people can work with each other and adapt themselves to create a better world.

In another chapter, Chopra cites various mysteries in nature such as albatrosses locating their babies among similar chicks or identical twins separated at birth but living similar lives. He uses these natural mysteries to reveal the awareness around us and how we can use that awareness that comes from thought, instinct, history, and knowledge to receive Wisdom.

Matching Science with Spirituality, Chopra uses both sides of the philosophies towards the Universe and shows that the secrets of living a better more fulfilling life are all around us.





6. Sail Into Your Dreams: 8 Steps to Living a More Purposeful Life by Karen Mehringer

Some Self-Help authors have gone through such a transformation that they want to share it with their Readers in hopes they will learn from their experience and follow a path to happiness and fulfillment. Such an experience happened to Karen Mehringer, psychotherapist and author of Sail Into Your Dreams: 8 Steps to Living a More Purposeful Life. She and her husband, John left their corporate lives in Seattle to take a 6 month journey by boat. This journey and living in their preferred environments of the mountainous Colorado and the coastal California gave the Readers a beautiful journey to read and steps on how they can achieve their dreams.

Some of Mehringer's writing gives evocative descriptions of her voyage. A suspenseful night of sailing through the ocean away from the shores recalls the advice of leaving the Comfort Zone. A moment where she sees a bird on still water leads to advice on living simply without distractions provided by TV, cell phones, and the Internet.

The book isn't just about Mehringer's journey but all of ours as we seek to accomplish our goals. Mehringer includes exercises in which The Reader can account the many self-doubts, addictions, and nay-sayers that hold them back and visualizations in which they can project themselves living their dreams, happy and fulfilled.

Mehringer's book provides tools for Readers to follow their dreams and a beautiful journey to picture while they achieve it.



5. A New Earth: Awakening To Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle

Tolle's book, A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose is a continuation to his The Power of Now. The previous book identified the conflict between the Self and the Ego. A New Earth builds on that book. It gives us the various ways that the Ego tries to take control of our lives and how we can challenge it to discover our life's purpose.

The chapters identify the various traps the Ego falls into such as attachment to things and the illusion of ownership ("Many people don't realize until they are on their deathbed and everything external falls away that no thing ever had anything to do with who they are."). Complaining, resentment, and jealousy are other traps that the Ego falls into because they fall into hatred and name calling. ("Name-calling is the crudest form of such labeling and of the Ego's need to be right and triumph over others.") Another is to carry previous pain and hurt with you to what Tolle calls the pain-body. ("Every thought feeds the pain-body and in turn the pain-body generates more thoughts. After a few hours, a few days it has replenished itself and returns to it's dormant stage ")

Once those Ego Traps are removed, Tolle writes that we can see our inner purpose and that we can use it to create A New Earth , not a Utopia Tolle insists. But to recognize your inner purpose is whatever gives a person fulfillment and can be passed on to others. The New Earth is created, Tolle believes when we recognize the spiritual self in ourselves and in others around us.





4. Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom by John O'Donohue

The words Anam Cara mean "Soul Friend" in Irish. It is a beautiful concept in which one friend acts as a confidant and confessor to another. The friends share secrets, wishes, guilt, and desires. John O'Donohue captured the concept of "Soul Friend" to give wisdom to the Reader so they can be their own Anam Cara.

The book, Anam Cara, is filled with beautiful poetic wisdom that O'Donohue gathered from literature, folklore, and his own observations traveling through his home country. O'Donohue's writing is descriptive and fills the Reader with a spiritual connection to the words. In describing light on the dawn, he writes, "When you attend to the way the dawn comes, you learn how the light can coax the dark. The first fingers of light appear on the horizon, and ever so deftly and gradually, they pull the mantle of darkness away from the world."

The book explores the concepts of Friendship, The Senses, Solitude, Work, Aging, and Death in little passages that elaborate on the concepts. For example, The Senses chapter has sections which elaborate on the gifts of sight, sound, touch, smell, and taste. These passages make the Reader take a moment to explore the world around them with each sense.

O'Donohue also is familiar with Irish folk tales and uses them to illustrate his concepts. The tale of Fionn Macchumail gaining the gift of wisdom from a magical salmon that another man had been looking for for seven years shows how the linear mind can sometimes miss a gift. Sometimes the gifts come when we aren't looking for them.

Though a small book, Anam Cara is filled with beauty, love, wisdom, and gentle reminder on how to accept love around us.





3. The Creative Process: Reflections on Invention In The Arts and Sciences Edited by Brewster Ghiselin

Some Self-Help Books guide by teaching offering suggestions and advice on how to live a better life. Others guide by doing, showing how the author changed their lives thereby leading by example. The anthology, The Creative Process, falls into the latter category.

This informative book is filled with essays, letters, and excerpts from various people to show how they create. The chapters are written by mathematicians, scientists, composers, artists, novelists, and others who discuss how they created their works and how their minds worked in the process.

Some claim their creations came divinely inspired with little correction. In a letter to a friend, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart said that he didn't know where his musical inspiration came from. He only knows that he heard a tune in his head and put it down to paper and that what he composed was never different from what he imagined.
Poet, Samuel Taylor Coleridge says that the inspiration for his poem, Kubla Khan, came from a dream. He wrote most of the lines down verbatim from his dream. If not for a persistent and pesky salesman, he would have remembered more of the dream and wrote down more of the poem.

Some of the authors recount their creativity, not from Divine Inspiration, but from hard work and constant revision. In writing a poem, Stephen Spender, wrote of visiting a Confederate graveyard for inspiration. He then wrote of the details in determining the poetic form, word choice, and editing until he was satisfied.
In his essay, Henry Miller, wrote about how he refined his own writing talent by studying other writers. However that proved to be a trap when Miller tried to recreate Dovsteovsky, Mann, and Niestchze. He realized he needed to find his own style and his own voice to be a writer.

Among the best essays is that of Carl Gustaves Jung who analyzed the Creative mind. He believed that creative people were closer to the unconscious imaginative thoughts than most people. That creative people are able to tap into those thoughts to bring about those works.

This anthology proves that a person doesn't have to be a writer, artist, or a composer to be creative. They can use the advice from these essays to find their own voice and imagination to be creative thinkers and find original ideas in their own lives.










2. Sacred Contracts: Awakening Your Divine Potential by Caroline Myss

Some may only know archetypes through the writings of Carl Jung. Some may not know who they are. (For those that don't, they are figures who are common in film, literature, mythology.) We would never think that they exist in our lives but think about it. How many times has someone long-suffering been described as a Martyr? Or an adult with a child-like nature been called an Eternal Child? Or a flirtatious person been called a Don Juan or a Femme Fatale? Not only do they exist within us, but author, Caroline Myss says that every day we exhibit parts of our Archetypes and they can help us fill our Sacred Contracts, an agreement that our souls makes of who we are and what we want to be in our livesand how our lives influence others.

Myss uses the Archetypal lives of Jesus, Muhammed, Buddha, and Abraham, those Myss dubs The Masters, to show the various steps people go through when they encounter their Sacred Contracts: Contact, Heeding the Call, Renaming, Assignments, and Surrender.

While our Sacred Contracts may not be as world-changing as the Masters, Myss', writing suggests that the Contract is in play with our aspirations, whether we strive to be teachers, business people, writers, or even spouses and parents. The steps come through as we shape our lives as we work in the field that is our best fit and use that work to help others.

The most interesting part of the book is the Glossary which describes the various Archetypes and how they help and sometimes hinder us with their and our personality traits.

For example, The Artist Archetype inspires people to be creative whether it's in painting, writing, composing, or even being one that promotes such work-like a gallery owner, an arts patron or (ahem) a blogger/book reviewer. However, the dark or Shadow side of that Archetype is living with the mental illnesses such as depression or anxiety that are often found in creative individual or the fear of only being recognized after death. Readers will recognize the various Archetypes in themselves, thinking "Hey that's me and that, and that one too. Hey that one reminds me of my Mom. I work with someone like that."

Sacred Contracts explores the various parts of our personality and how they shape us, our careers, our relationships, and our placements in the world.







1. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons In Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey

The reason this book is number one on this list is because it combined practical and spiritual advice to provide a holistic approach on life. Stephen Covey's book encourages the Readers to live principle-centered lives and practice effective leadership to bring about change in themselves and the people around them.

Many of the principles are centered around our feelings towards others and how interdependent we are towards each other. In one of the most haunting exercises "Begin With the End in Mind," Covey advises the Reader to imagine they are at their own funeral and they are hearing speeches from a friend, family member, co-worker, and community member. The Reader is supposed to visualize what kind of person that the speakers will describe. It is a wake-up call so the Reader can live their lives in the most meaningful way possible.

Another exercise Covey suggests to compare the different centers of our lives: spouses, family, work, friends, and most importantly their principles. Covey suggests living accordineg to principles creates a self-respecting,  knowledgeable, and proactive individual who can show effective leadership.

Effective Leadership is different from Management, Covey writes. Management is putting together the workplace, arranging schedules, heading meetings, and making the products. Leadership is more internal relating to how people work together, whether they are in a business or a family. The habits include listening and understanding before giving an opinion or offering advice or visualizing outcomes that benefit all involved. They also involve working together in synergy and doing further things like writing, studying, and communicating with others to continue to be effective people.

Stephen Covey's book tells us how we can be better leaders, workers, and people. Those are some good habits to get into.





Honorable Mention: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale, To Be and How To Be: Transforming Your Life Through Sacred Theatre by Peggy Rubin, Awareness: Exploring, Experimenting, Experiencing by John O. Stevens, Who Are you? 101 Ways of Seeing Yourself by Malcolm Godwin, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty by. Manuel Smith, Key to Yourself by Dr. Venice Bloodworth, Learning to Love Yourself by Gay Hendricks, Co-Dependant No More by Melody Battle, What Color is Your Parachute by Richard N. Bolles, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by John Gray, The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo, Chicken Soup for the Soul by Jack Canfield, Simple Abundance: A Day Book of Comfort and Joy by Sarah Ban Breathnach, You've Got to Read This Book: 55 People Discuss the Books That Changed Their Lives Edited by Jack Canfield and Gay Hendricks.