Showing posts with label Boxing. Show all posts
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Wednesday, July 17, 2024

Dancing in the Ring by Susan E. Sage; Historical Fiction Based on Family History Captures The Complexities of a Marriage

Dancing in the Ring by Susan E. Sage; Historical Fiction Based on Family History Captures The Complexities of a Marriage 

By Julie Sara Porter 

Bookworm Reviews


Spoilers: Susan E. Sage’s novel, Dancing in the Ring, tells the fictionalized account of her great uncle and aunt, Bob and Catherine McIntosh Sage with honesty, beauty, humor, tragedy, and thankfully without rose tinted nostalgia. She brings her ancestors to life recalling both the good and the bad of their passionate, eventful, and sometimes troubled marriage.

Catherine McIntosh is a bright ambitious law student in 1920’s Detroit ready to become a lawyer even though there are very few women attorneys. In 1922, she met Bob “The Battling Barrister” Sage, a fellow law student and professional boxer. Bob is smitten at first sight by the feisty and brainy Irish-American beauty. She does not reciprocate at first but ultimately is won over. The two formed a relationship despite conflicts within their family and pressures at school and work. 

Most of the book is set after their marriage in 1925 and recounts their good and bad times.

This is a thorough meticulous book with two full, rich, engaging, and captivating characters. Catherine is an independent career woman who in the 1920’s wasn't interested in marriage or starting a family. She saw stifling often violent marriages with her parents and sisters and has good reason to withdraw from the role that her family expects her to play.

 Catherine has a developed sense of fairness and justice such as when she defends her friend Grace, an African-American lawyer after she is faced with discrimination. During her legal career, she helps impoverished women and unwed mothers. 

Bob is interested in his legal practice but also has other interests that take up his time. He failed the bar three times before finally passing. For a time, he is more interested in the battles in the boxing ring than in the courtroom. His boxing career is successful until he starts aging out and he instead focuses on the law. Either way, he is a fighter and learned from personal experience.

Like Catherine, he is shaped by his environment. His father and some siblings, including his twin brother, died so he is used to being on his own. That fighting spirit is an asset in his life and career as he helps his clients and bonds with troubled youths, particularly his nephew.

With two people that are both independent, bad tempered, and possess fighting spirits, there are bound to be troubles within their marriage. Sage does not shy away from describing her great aunt and uncle's darker natures. Their marriage has many positive moments. They work together to create their own law practice, Sage & Sage. They attend dances, speakeasies, and social gatherings. They go to romantic spots and dance to standard music. Even though they don't have children, they have a wide circle of friends and family and are surrogate parents to Bob’s nephew, Bobby Gene. The book splashes with details about their lives in the 20’s and 30’s.

Unfortunately, for every pleasant moment, there are just as many unhappy ones. It would be tempting for Sage to be nostalgic and gloss over Bob and Catherine’s problems. It can be hard to write a family history and acknowledge the bad parts within a family and to see relatives as real people and those long ago times with a more critical view. Sage, however, faces these darker dimensions head on and does it in a way that is both beautiful and tragic.

The elder Sage's marriage was rocked by infidelity, alcoholism, miscarriages, and at times abuse. Their fights are harrowing as they use their words and sometimes hands and objects to make their points. The Great Depression takes a huge toll as their law firm closes. Catherine is denied employment because she is a woman and Bob’s boxing career ends just as his law one does. The stress of outside events and their own mercurial natures turn on them in frightening ways that results in separation. 

There is a sense of fatalism that resonates throughout the book mostly revealed through dreams and visions. Since Bob and Catherine come from Irish-American families, they are attuned to the Irish beliefs in the mystical, second sight, and extra sensory perception. Catherine's grandmother and Bob’s mother make predictions that are later found to be true. Some of the more frightening passages occur when Bob and Catherine have dreams. Catherine dreams that she is surrounded by fire and Bob sees visions of himself standing over three men that he might have killed. 

The dreams are constant threads that carry throughout the book and build to a climax that suggests that the Sage's fates were sealed long ago. Their lives had both triumph and tragedy, laughter and tears, joyful and angry moments. They might have avoided those endings that they saw by not meeting, getting married, or living their lives the way that they did. However after getting to know Bob and Catherine Sage, the Reader knows not only that they couldn't have but that they wouldn't want to. They lived their lives with passion, commitment, independence, strength, and honesty. They wouldn't have had it any other way.

 

Wednesday, February 8, 2023

Weekly Reader: Lily Upshire is Winning by John Holmes; Coming of Age YA Novel About A Girl's Conflicts In Her Online and Private Life

 



Weekly Reader: Lily Upshire is Winning by John Holmes; Coming of Age YA Novel About A Girl's Conflicts In Her Online and Private Life

By Julie Sara Porter

Bookworm Reviews 


Spoilers: Lily Upshire is Winning by John Holmes is one of those Contemporary YA novels that isn't about anything. Or let me rephrase that, Lily Upshire is Winning is about the protagonist facing many things that on their own would make short works but together produce challenges to how she views herself and the world around her.


Lily Upshire is a 12 year old girl who isn't just having a miserable day. Lately she has had a miserable life. She is the frequent target of bullying from the Bizzel Sisters. She doesn't do well in school and dislikes most of her teachers except for English teacher Emily Hass, with whom she might have a crush. She is being raised by her grandmother, because her mother died before she was two and she has no father. This leads many to question and spread rumors about her parentage. It's no wonder that she confides in her online boyfriend, Travis, about her problems.


Lily's problems are about to get worse. Before she drinks a smoothie from a nearby shop called Bashett's, she discovers a pea inside. She and her grandmother's friends, the Peacemakers, decide to report the discovery to Bashett's main corporate office. This act turns Lily into an Internet celebrity. During her strange 15 minutes of fame, she discovers some disturbing things about Travis and a girl named Mack reveals to Lily that she has a crush on her.


This is a novel with a lot of humor and heart. There are some hilarious moments when the Peacemakers suggest ways to make her story more pathetic to arouse sympathy. ("Say you've got allergies!" "I have peas at least twice a week!")


 Also, it is very true when Bashett's keeps sending her complimentary gifts like vouchers and free trips to New York. They spend a lot of time, money, and attention on this case but don't give Lily what she really wants: a simple apology.


Besides the laughs, there is also a lot of sadness in the book, particularly with Lily's loneliness. She is understandably crushed when Travis is revealed to be a fraud. While realistically, Readers understand the dangers of online relationships and that Lily should know better, try telling that to a teenager with few friends and no one to confide in.


She also has trouble with outside relationships. She throws a potentially good healthy relationship with Mac away even after the girl confesses that she is in love with her. Lily is a bundle of insecurities who reaches out for love then withdraws it when she needs it the most.


Lily finds some solace as she begins to take up boxing as a hobby. What starts out as a means to exercise and defend herself, becomes an outlet to articulate her rage at the betrayals and anger that she feels. She begins to excel as many do when they find their talent and true niche. Through boxing, Lily actually finds some purpose in life.


Lily Upshire is Winning is a very realistic honest coming of age book that opens that time when it seems that everything is against you. Your body goes through changes that you don't understand. You are beginning to be annoyed with and resent the people around you. 


If you can find something or someone to hold onto during that time to bring some pleasure and meaning that makes you excel, then that can actually feel like winning.